Meghan has always been a ritual-builder. Remember the Suits days? She was famous for her morning tea-and-yoga flow. This Christmas tradition feels like a natural extension of that intentional living, just with more glitter glue.
In her Archetypes podcast, Meghan once mentioned how her mother, Doria Ragland, taught her to “find the light in the dark.” The Gratitude Jar is a tangible version of that lesson, passed down to the next generation. It’s a power move of softness.
Harry, reportedly, is all in. He apparently loves the moment when Archie reads his entry—often something like “Daddy’s funny face” or “the red fire truck.” It’s a grounding counterpoint to the family’s often intense public narrative.
This tradition also subtly teaches kids that presence beats presents. In a world of unboxing videos and instant gratification, pausing to reflect is a quiet act of defiance. Bravo, Sussexes.
How to Steal This Tradition (Without the Royal Budget)
Ready to ditch the pre-Christmas panic? Here’s your practical toolkit. First, keep it ugly. Don’t buy a fancy jar. Use an old pickle jar, a shoebox, or a repurposed candle holder. Imperfection is the whole point.
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Next, make it a team sport. Place the jar on the kitchen counter or dining table with a stack of sticky notes. Encourage everyone—yes, even the grumpy teenager—to drop in one note before dinner or after brushing teeth. No editing allowed.
For the little ones, let them draw or dictate to you. Lilibet’s scribble about “the puppy next door” counts just as much as a poetic paragraph. The goal is participation, not perfection.
If you forget for a few days? No guilt. This isn’t a chore. Just write a few backlog notes together. “Remember that snow day when school got canceled?” Boom. Instant gratitude fuel.
Consider a variation: a “Fails and Wins” jar, where you note a funny mistake and a small victory each day. It builds resilience and laughter, which is basically the holiday spirit in a nutshell.
Cultural Echoes: You’ve Seen This Before
This concept isn’t new—it’s a modern reboot of an old classic. Think of the One Thousand Gifts movement by Ann Voskamp, or even the Jewish tradition of Shehecheyanu, a blessing for new, joyful moments. Meghan just gave it a Hollywood-Meets-Windsor spin.
It also mirrors the Scandinavian concept of hygge—finding cozy, collective joy. Except here, instead of candles and wool socks, you get a jar of crumpled paper and a toddler’s proud grin. Honestly, that’s better.
And let’s not forget: this is the same woman who once said, “I’m not just a princess, I’m a feminist.” This tradition is subtly feminist, too. It prioritizes emotional literacy and shared storytelling over rigid, picture-perfect holiday performance.
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