Here’s the takeaway for your daily life: the next time you feel that pang of being out of the loop, don’t panic. The question “When did Jeffery die?” is a reminder that we’re all just trying to keep up.
It’s a little bit sad, a little bit funny, and deeply human. You missed the memo, but you’re still part of the conversation. And being in the conversation—even late—is what counts.
So go ahead. Ask the question. Jeffery is patient. He’s been dead for a while, but he understands. After all, we’re all just waiting for someone to ask about us, too. Just don’t wait too long to tell your friends you love them.
